શ્રદ્ધા સુમન શ્રદ્ધાંજલિ - પરમ પૂજ્ય સંત શ્રી પ્રમુખ સ્વામી.

Once we taken a birth on this Earth, everywhere we find numerous problems in our life. Every one looking for the peaceful life in which an individual enjoy each and every moments of their life. But the biggest question is how many people are able to achieve such life? Your answer will be Very few. Why is it so...?

Well I have seen many people who have all the necessary things including luxurious facilities also. But still they people are lacking with peace. They people characterized by conflict kind of nature.

On a counter way, I also meet some people who troubling with financial problem. But they people live their life with full of enjoyment. When i ask question to such a people how you are being happy all the time even if you are having too much problem? They simply answer in more or similar way... Money is not more important to us they says the real assets of their life is their family. Mutual understanding between husband and wife, Flexibility along with friendliness towards parents and children are more important to them.

So, I have find following characteristics of the family members who lives there life happily without any problem. Whether you have money or not, if you and your family have this characteristics I am pretty sure that you will live joyful life.

Satisfaction:

Many a time, we are just in search of what we don't have. It means we didn't even look on what we have right now. We are comparing our self with others, they have this and that. By this way we are just spoiling our self only. I am not telling you to stop efforts to achieve such things.  I mean is it okay to compromise your peace by studying others financial condition? Defiantly it is not okay. What we need to do is. We have to change our vision direction. Focus your eye lights on what you have; at initial stage you may study that family who don't have financial conditions like you. Once you start such study you will find that god has given you many things this will lead to your satisfaction.

Fewer Expectations:

You may listened many quotes like the reason behind all the sorrow is too much expectation towards something. Why don't you obey me? You don't do this and that according to my expectations. If you have such sentences in your mind than sorry to say that you are having too much expectation. In this world, no one control the nature, likes, dislikes behavior, attitude and personality of other.

Narrow downing your expectations will surly helpful for happier family life. For example, If your husband don't earn well, than try to understand his limitation and motivate him to overcome it.. Believe me he will surly likes your efforts of motivation. Once you made all of your efforts, somewhere you will find yourself happy as you did complete your side. On counter side he will put all his effort in job or business as he has backbone support. I am talking about remedy of the problem and not the outcome. If you expect output without input that it will be biggest injustice with the nature of the law too.

Lives in presents:

Before a few days ago I received one audio clip in Gujarati language this clips is all about the story of two friends by Shailesh Akbariya. Two friends are working with together in a company with the same designation. They are also live in on society with same kind of house. All the things are same but still one person live life happily and another one sadly. One day they both went our somewhere the sad friend told to their friend.. What is the reason you are too happy with this much problem? He gives answer - question and the problem are same in my life as yours. You know that very well as we live together since long time. Sad friend replied yes you are right but tell me how you being happy all the time with such problems. He replied very beautifully by putting his hand on his friends shoulder, dear friend... I am just being sad only once while you become sad 3 times for the same problem. For example

When the problem is about to come, you become sad by thinking on such problem. (Future oriented thoughts)

1. You become sad when you worried about upcoming problem (Future oriented).
2. You become sad when actually problem comes into your life.(Present oriented thoughts).
3. Once the problem gets over, you become sad by recalling such things. ( Past oriented thoughts).

So by this story I would like to tell you that we have to be in present in every moment of the life. Once you learn how to live in present believe me your life will be more joyful.

Mutual Understanding:

Understand among husband and wife, parent with their children matters a lot for joyful livings. Mutual understanding is not the things which we learn in schools and collage. If you find such a thing inside you than start exploring such things it will be helpful for your family.

Family values on first priority:

Family values are the most important things in entire world, for which we are earning money, for which we make efforts day and night? Defiantly it's our family.

In any critical situation, we must have to give priorities to our family only. Family is the only thing where we ultimately want to be with right..!

Don't give too many priorities to your job or business by compromising your family happiness.

Spirituality:

Spirituality is also one of the characteristic of peaceful family. Spirituality teaches us how to live life in peaceful way. If the family member follow any relative religious deeply they will live their life happily as it will give a single thought process direction towards any event. This will lead to mutual understanding also.